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A.D. (Don) Haylett |
As a teenager, I would often listen to his wartime stories. One of my
favourites was about a poem entitled High
Flight. According to Don, the author
of this poem, John Gillespie Magee spent time at Uplands. At the time when I
was hearing this story, it did not mean a great deal to me as I had never heard
of the poem. Being a typical teenager, I half-listened to his tale and never
took the time to write down the details.
However, as I recall, Don told us that the poem was found scribbled on
the back of a letter or envelope; that it was discovered in his personal effects
after Magee was killed in the war; and that one of Don’s jobs was to deliver
the deceased’s personal belongings to their family members. It was fitting that
many years later when Don died, this poem was a part of his funeral service.
In retrospect, I wished I’d listened more carefully because according
to the official version, Magee wrote the poem and sent the letter to his parents. Given the short three month window between the time when Magee wrote
the poem and when he died, it’s possible the letter was never mailed. It’s also
possible that he sent the letter, but kept a copy for himself which was later
found in his personal effects.
Either way, it shows how we can have a personal connection with
history. High Flight has been recited
by many people over the years; one of the most famous was President Ronald
Reagan who, on January 28, 1986, spoke to his fellow Americans about the Challenger disaster. At the end of his speech, he paid homage to Magee's poem by saying that the Challenger Crew, “Slipped the surly bonds of earth to touch the face of God.”
There is another line in the poem which reads, “Sunward, I’ve climbed
and joined the tumbling mirth of sun-split clouds…and done a hundred things you
have not dreamed of.”
Now picture my father and his brother Don growing up on a farm in rural
Ontario during the 1930’s. In the midst of this relative isolation, appeared a
young British man who worked on their family farm, but who studied aviation
at night by the glow of an oil lamp. He must have seemed an exotic creature to
them and made them dream of what was possible beyond the limited confines of
their rural world.
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Uncle Don |
It is probably no coincidence that my uncle worked for over sixty years in the aviation industry as a pilot and airline mechanic; that he eventually
started a business pertaining to the inspection of jet engines; in turn, his
son Don became an airline mechanic and now runs this family-owned business.
I can remember how Uncle Don landed his airplane in the field of our farm back in the 1960’s; to a child growing up in rural Ontario, this seemed terribly exciting. Family folklore says I flopped myself on the couch saying, "I think I'm going to faint!" In my own defence, I would like to point out that planes didn't land in our fields every day. I’m sure it also fuelled my desire to explore places beyond our small corner of the world.
In addition, my Dad’s cousin Marion, who lived in Michigan, spent her summer holidays on my grandparents’ farm and went on to get her pilot’s licence while still a teenager; this would have been an unusual accomplishment for a young woman in that era. Many years later, as a grandmother in her 60's, Marion bought herself a motorcycle and travelled solo around the world with it.
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Dad & His Plane |
At the time, we were told that one of the theories behind the idea of
the Rotary Youth Exchange was that of the “ripple effect.” It was believed that sending young people to
live in other countries for a year would lead to a wider "ripple effect" of
goodwill and better understanding amongst people of different cultures. Looking back,
that has been true in my own family. We forged ties with people in Australia (and also in Brazil because we hosted a girl on Exchange from there) that have
lasted for many decades.
I would argue that “the ripple effect” was also at work in the case of
Don Haylett. One young British man had a burning dream to fly; my uncle Don, my
Dad and their cousin Marion witnessed this and were inspired to take flight
themselves; a generation later, my cousin Don Jr. joined his Dad in the aviation
field. Although I have never had the yen to pilot my own plane, I have had one
foot planted firmly on the soil of our family farm; the other in airports.
This Remembrance Day, when I stop and observe the official two minutes of silence, it will be for all the men and women who served for our country and fought for our freedom; it will also be for one particular man who, simply by daring to have a dream, changed the course of one family’s life. This one’s for you, Don!
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Dad Fuels Uncle Don's Plane |
So I guess we should never underestimate our own individual power and influence. Surely when we dream, we put out our hands and touch the face of God; we also serve as an inspiration for others.
Wing Commander Don Haylett was my Uncle. He married my Aunty Mae, my mother's sister Dad, Uncle Don and his friend, Ted Betts, were all fourteen when the came from England to work on farms. My dad married, and originally had a gift and jewelery shop. These three fellows had motorbikes and apparently "hung out" at our home.
ReplyDeleteWhen I was in my 40s, Uncle Don took me up for flying lessons which I thoroughly enjoyed, even the loop the loop!
He has a daughter in Hawaii and a son in BC.
Thanks for the lovely post!
Uncle Don's niece,
Margaret Nosworthy
Don Haylett was my uncle. He married my Aunty Mae and had two children, Beverley and Bentley. We lived in the small town of Hespeler in Ontario Canada. I wa born in 1931. I remember being told in WW 11,Uncle Don and Aunty Mae met the Dutch Queen when she came to Ottawa to have her baby and a room in the Ottawa hospital was designated as being in Holland so the baby would be born Dutch.
ReplyDeleteUncle Don bought a farm after the war in Lambeth, Ontario just outside London, Ontario.
He didn't think much of jet planes."They flew themselves" he said.
In1968 my husband and I and our two children visited my aunt and uncle on their farm. I wanted to fly and he took me up and gave me my first lesson.I loved my Uncle Don
Thanks for your lovely comments and for sharing your memories, Margaret. I was very fond of both Don and Mae and can remember Mae talking about her work as a nurse--about nursing a man in an iron lung etc. It's so nice to know that they live on in our hearts and memories, isn't it? Thanks again, Helen
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